Is your man CHEAP?

The following excerpt was sent to me by a friend. It was taken from the site: ENIGMATICSOUL A singer-songwriter hiding behind a Web site or day job.

PLEASE READ AND LET ME KNOW WHAT YOU THINK.  ASAP!

It goes –>”I’ve been recently bombarded with friends who’ve complained about sluggish, cheap-ass boyfriends or dates. I know we live in the new millennium and that women and men are viewed as equal. My complaints (and theirs, as these women are quite liberal-minded) relate less to equality and more to generosity.

Ladies,I can’t stress this enough. When a guy spends more money on himself, than he does with you, its’ a clear indication that he cares more about himself than he does for you. He doesn’t have to get you Chanel sunglasses, or Hermes purses or anything like that. But if he’s constantly asking you to split the bill whenever you guys go out , whether you have been with him for a short or long period of time, chances are he’s not going to change. And you’re not helping him get any better by staying in the relationship and tolerating his behavior. People must value themselves enough to say enough is enough, and draw a bold and clear line between what they would accept in a relationship and what they would not. Because if you compromise and keep telling yourself that ,”or he’s funny”, or “I just don’t want to be alone”, in the end you’ll just resent him and yourself for allowing him to treat you the way he does.

Again, please do not mistaken this as a “money” issue. It’s more of what is acceptable and what is not. And it seems to me that, most of the women who posted here, are not happy with their boyfriends. If a man splits everything, down to the last penny…then you should run! Don’t walk to the nearest exit. Think of it this way, if you date a guy who is an extremely cheap, would you want to marry him and spend the next 30+ years of your life with him and produce babies with this guy? And if the answer is no, then why are you wasting your precious time with someone whom you don’t see yourself marrying?

The only time I do 50-50 is when I’m hanging out with my friends. If a guy constantly does the 50-50 thing, then consider him a friend, because he doesn’t seem to consider you as a girlfriend.

I once heard a story where a girl’s fiancee made her pay for her own coffee at a 7-11. ::::Shakes head:::::”

Come on I WANT TO HEAR YOUR COMMENTS ON THIS ONE!!!!!

(((HUGS)))

Knyx

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Bookstores in Trinidad & Tobago

Good day all.

I promised I would post  (forgot to say some of) my thoughts, my work, my life on this blog. This post may be misconstrued to be an angry rant. It is not, it is simple an observation / a challenge i’m experiencing. And if some singers vent in song, why can’t I share my thoughts on my blog? If I sing it you may not hear it (but that’s a different story, or is it?)

The situation is, I wrote a “book”. Actually I co-wrote it  with two colleges. Oh the sweat, long nights, endless compromise and wasted trees (paper).  I even acquired a ghost name along the way. Then…Book was complete.  Madmen “publishers” did a super job on making it top class, while the Mahato’s made sure it was shelf ready. All systems were set to go.

The problem is, I only got two or three “book stores”  – so far- out of the 30 something, to put my book on their shelves.  What’s the problem?  Is it the book cartel? I’ve been listening checking out the other local “books” in our “bookstores” and mine deserves to be up on those shelves!  My Mummy and friends would tell you am the last person to blow my own trumpet, but when it needs blowing I have the confidence and the ability to blow…hard. MEH BOOK BARD! If de cartel ease up it go make best seller list! It go make it tuh de top 10 on de International pulitzer monarch competition!

I don’t condone it, but I understand why some writers get  enraged enough to commit acts worthy of spending a few days on “vacation” at taxpayer’s expense.

I’m hoping to start my “book tour” soon. Yeah yeah, I need the “bookstores” to HAVE said “book” in order for this tour to make sense. Or do I? Maybe I can be creative and promote my “book” underground. If Dr. Morgan Job can do it, why can’t I? I’m gonna do it! Look out for me at your regular bars, pubs, restaurants, schools, beaches and fetes, I’ll be all over. Besides, once I set up stage, no matter where, once I have an audience, COTT will collect royalties on my behalf right?

Alls fair in love and war.

((hugs)))

G6 Knyx. (and ah in meh own lane)

Interview with Knycky cordner (me) via www.shugacane.com

Please click on the following link to read this interview.

Interview with Knycky Cordner


Thanks for reading. I hope my fight will bless you into FIGHTING WITH FAITH!

I appreciate your comments on my blog AND on Shugacane’s site. We MUST SUPPORT EACH OTHER’S WORK.

Thanks again Shugacane!

Blessings and Miracles,

Knyx…

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