I love you.


Yesterday it seems I gave some people a scare with my post.  This morning I received a few calls  from some concerned friends. Guys I love the fact that you’re always here for me, always in my corner but as my post said it was simply a “Veg out day” part 2. Have no fear yuh girl good. Still, it was really sweet of you guys to check up on me. THANKS RONNIE all the way in Germany, you’re simple awesome!

I pray for you all an amazing week ahead, super filled with happiness and productivity.

I love you all.




WTH! is wrong with me?

Today Saturday 10th September 2011 my day started at 5:42AM. Actually I did not sleep well. I got approximately 2 hours sleep, well rest, okay call it sleep if you must, then it turned into (for those of you familiar with me and what I call)  a “VEG OUT DAY” . It was so totally different from last weekend which was jammed with activity, three straight days  (Saturday – Monday) of shooting photos and videos with my band  Night Angels.  Side note: It was a lot of work but so much fun!  I absolutely LOVE MY CAREER!


Today however I wasn’t feeling. I wasn’t feeling happy (strange). I wasn’t down, I almost felt nada. Has that ever happened to you? So I lazed around, looked at The Help (good movie), read a novel called “Bitter Sweet” by Roopa Farooki which I loved and surfed the ‘net. I DID NOT EVEN CLEAN HUUUH!


I went so far as to cancel my dinner date to Texas De Brazil. WTH!!! Now THAT IS THE STRANGEST OF THEM ALL cause I love to eat and I love my meat. *giggles*


It’s now 9:48PM, and am having my usual evening glass of vino and thought I should say hi and send my love to you. “Hi, I love you”. LOL. “How have YOU been?”

Thanks for reading my… my… my… my thoughts.

(A sort of PS): Sometimes I have to refrain from coming here, am SERIOUS! I always keep it real and sooooooooooo I’ve been cautioned by the people that love me unconditionally that because I’m so open and honest, I really need to be cognizant that even though I’m willing to let others into my world by sharing my thoughts on this forum , I simply cannot say any and everything I would like. I appreciate their concern and I do understand. I would so love LOVE to call out companies that constantly deliver poor service, number plates of drivers who drive like fools on the road etc etc but I will not. I sometimes tweet about it @ Knycky Cordner (knycky) on Twitter *winks*.

Anyhow as usual I strayed. LOL. let me know what you’ve been up to pumpkins.

Love you (((HUGS))),


Is your man CHEAP?

The following excerpt was sent to me by a friend. It was taken from the site: ENIGMATICSOUL A singer-songwriter hiding behind a Web site or day job.


It goes –>”I’ve been recently bombarded with friends who’ve complained about sluggish, cheap-ass boyfriends or dates. I know we live in the new millennium and that women and men are viewed as equal. My complaints (and theirs, as these women are quite liberal-minded) relate less to equality and more to generosity.

Ladies,I can’t stress this enough. When a guy spends more money on himself, than he does with you, its’ a clear indication that he cares more about himself than he does for you. He doesn’t have to get you Chanel sunglasses, or Hermes purses or anything like that. But if he’s constantly asking you to split the bill whenever you guys go out , whether you have been with him for a short or long period of time, chances are he’s not going to change. And you’re not helping him get any better by staying in the relationship and tolerating his behavior. People must value themselves enough to say enough is enough, and draw a bold and clear line between what they would accept in a relationship and what they would not. Because if you compromise and keep telling yourself that ,”or he’s funny”, or “I just don’t want to be alone”, in the end you’ll just resent him and yourself for allowing him to treat you the way he does.

Again, please do not mistaken this as a “money” issue. It’s more of what is acceptable and what is not. And it seems to me that, most of the women who posted here, are not happy with their boyfriends. If a man splits everything, down to the last penny…then you should run! Don’t walk to the nearest exit. Think of it this way, if you date a guy who is an extremely cheap, would you want to marry him and spend the next 30+ years of your life with him and produce babies with this guy? And if the answer is no, then why are you wasting your precious time with someone whom you don’t see yourself marrying?

The only time I do 50-50 is when I’m hanging out with my friends. If a guy constantly does the 50-50 thing, then consider him a friend, because he doesn’t seem to consider you as a girlfriend.

I once heard a story where a girl’s fiancee made her pay for her own coffee at a 7-11. ::::Shakes head:::::”




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